Relationships. Why do they seem so difficult now. I wonder how our Parent's generation was successful at their's?
These days the notion is that women have become to cunning to stay in a relationship. Really? I think women have become more aware of the reality and they know how to protect themselves. Is that wrong? Is it a must that one should suffer in a relationship for it to be a celebrated one? I think we have the wrong idea. Isn't relationship about trust and chemistry? Should there not be transparency? Why do we have to think about a hundred million times about what to say to our partner? Why not just tell them the truth. And then leave it up to them to either accept this or just let go. How long can things be actually hidden?
There is another wrong thing these days in a relationship. High expectations. You want him to be perfect. He is not. Ever thought that he would want you to be prefect as well. And maybe you just are not. Perfection differs from person to person. How do you expect someone to stand up to your perfection standards when they might not be aware of them or relate to them in anyway?
The third thing that is messed up is the trust. Why is trust an issue to all? If you are able to trust, you are called naive. And the moment you start poking your nose around looking for something wrong, you will find it.
All these issues arise because now we lead a two faced life. A face for the world. And a hidden face of ours. Face for the world gets you respect and fame. The hidden face. Well, that is exactly who you are, but you are afraid to show it to the world. Maybe your real face won't be accepted in the society. But like I have said before, how long can you hide the facts?
We can have better relationships as soon as we accept ourselves and accept the fact that people are unique. No one out there will think exactly like you or have the exact needs or the exact romance in them as you. Does that still make you fall in love with someone? Then good. But then again, always remember that things are not always meant to work out. Keep your eyes open. Know when it is not meant to work out and let go. That is the only way to peace. Not forcing them into staying with you. You won't die without that person with whom you are not happy.
You must be wondering that I either have too much experience or I am completely ignorant. It is the first one. I know all of this, because I have messed up in my relationships as well. My friends and I are doing most of the wrong things in a relationship. But then lets just note down the mistakes and try not to make the same mistakes again.
Happy "Finding A Perfect Relationship".
These days the notion is that women have become to cunning to stay in a relationship. Really? I think women have become more aware of the reality and they know how to protect themselves. Is that wrong? Is it a must that one should suffer in a relationship for it to be a celebrated one? I think we have the wrong idea. Isn't relationship about trust and chemistry? Should there not be transparency? Why do we have to think about a hundred million times about what to say to our partner? Why not just tell them the truth. And then leave it up to them to either accept this or just let go. How long can things be actually hidden?
There is another wrong thing these days in a relationship. High expectations. You want him to be perfect. He is not. Ever thought that he would want you to be prefect as well. And maybe you just are not. Perfection differs from person to person. How do you expect someone to stand up to your perfection standards when they might not be aware of them or relate to them in anyway?
The third thing that is messed up is the trust. Why is trust an issue to all? If you are able to trust, you are called naive. And the moment you start poking your nose around looking for something wrong, you will find it.
All these issues arise because now we lead a two faced life. A face for the world. And a hidden face of ours. Face for the world gets you respect and fame. The hidden face. Well, that is exactly who you are, but you are afraid to show it to the world. Maybe your real face won't be accepted in the society. But like I have said before, how long can you hide the facts?
We can have better relationships as soon as we accept ourselves and accept the fact that people are unique. No one out there will think exactly like you or have the exact needs or the exact romance in them as you. Does that still make you fall in love with someone? Then good. But then again, always remember that things are not always meant to work out. Keep your eyes open. Know when it is not meant to work out and let go. That is the only way to peace. Not forcing them into staying with you. You won't die without that person with whom you are not happy.
You must be wondering that I either have too much experience or I am completely ignorant. It is the first one. I know all of this, because I have messed up in my relationships as well. My friends and I are doing most of the wrong things in a relationship. But then lets just note down the mistakes and try not to make the same mistakes again.
Happy "Finding A Perfect Relationship".
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