Man Made Female Complexities

Women can never be understood. This is one notion every man that I meet has.

Well, to a certain extent it is true. I myself can't really understand myself. But what about you men?  Do you understand yourself? 

I personally believe that every human being is in a constant state of change. Changes in external factors causes changes in our behavior as well. To be your complete self to the outer world is never encouraged. The only thing that makes us believe that we understand ourselves is ego. Ego which makes one resistant to changes.

Don't worry! My real intent of writing this post has nothing to do with introspection. Don't stop reading yet. 

As the title suggest, this piece is going to be related to female complexities. Female complexities that our country has come up with. Complexities like, "PATI PARMESHWAR", every woman should be a homemaker, a woman can't survive alone, and the main complexity, a woman not dressed properly is to be blamed if she is raped.

I had recently read in one of the case studies : "TOO MUCH RESPONSIBILITY AND NO AUTHORISATION" . Apt name to give to the role of women in Indian societies. 

Someone please explain to me in comments how wearing the apt clothes cures a mind of a sick pervert? Here is food for thought : Most women who are raped are wearing the APT CLOTHES. Many say that it depends on the time of the day. Really? So with the sun, a woman's right to choose her sexual partner also goes away, only to come back tomorrow morning? Yes, society has a norm, and should be followed. But what sort of society norm ignores the crimes of men and turn a female victim into a girl who was inviting the trouble?

It makes me sick. To know how people with power misuse their powers. "TOO MUCH AUTHORIZATION, AND VERY LITTLE RESPONSIBILITY". 

It makes me even more sick to hear a woman criticize a female rape victim.

And no, molestation should not go unpunished either. Why did the 17 year old girl in Guwahati get molested. What motivates anyone to harm a child? What sort of revenge a man gets by raping a girl?

A rapist does not really need a motivation to rape. He just needs his sick mind. And all those who criticize rape victims and make their lives a living hell, well maybe your mind needs to be diagnosed as well. Day in and day out, we hide our sick minds with cover of cultural and society norms. The cover will keep you safe and is a luxury, until it happens to you. So wake up now, and start protesting against these crimes against women. Not because women are DEVIS. Because they are human beings.